You got a negative review.
Now you're staring at your screen, trying to figure out what to say.
Do you defend yourself? Apologize? Ignore it?
Here's exactly what to say—with templates you can copy and customize.
The Golden Rule of Responding
Your response isn't for the reviewer. It's for everyone else reading.
Future customers will see this negative review. More importantly, they'll see how you handled it.
A calm, professional response says: "This business cares and handles problems well."
An angry, defensive response says: "Stay away."
And businesses that respond to reviews earn 35% more revenue than those that don't.
The Universal Template
This works for almost any negative review:
That's it. Short, professional, and moves the conversation offline.
Let's break down why this works:
- "I'm sorry to hear about your experience" — Acknowledges their feelings without admitting fault
- "This isn't the standard we hold ourselves to" — Shows you have standards
- "I'd like to make this right" — Shows you care about fixing problems
- "Please reach out to me at..." — Moves it offline where you can actually resolve it
Templates for Specific Situations
Template 1: Legitimate Complaint
When they had a real bad experience and they're right to be upset:
Template 2: Misunderstanding
When there's been a miscommunication:
Template 3: Unreasonable Customer
When they expected something unrealistic (but you still need to respond professionally):
Template 4: Suspected Fake Review
When you think it might be fake or from a competitor:
(Then flag the review for Google to investigate.)
Template 5: Service Delay or Wait Time Complaint
Template 6: Price Complaint
Template 7: Rude Staff Complaint
What NOT to Say
These responses will make things worse:
❌ Don't argue the facts
"Actually, you were only waiting for 15 minutes, not 45 like you claim."
Even if you're right, you look petty.
❌ Don't get defensive
"We've been in business for 20 years and no one has ever complained about this before."
This dismisses their experience and makes you look arrogant.
❌ Don't blame them
"Maybe if you had communicated better, we wouldn't have this problem."
Even if true, this kills any chance of resolution.
❌ Don't be sarcastic
"So sorry our perfect 5.0 rating offended you."
This goes viral for all the wrong reasons.
❌ Don't write a novel
Long, detailed responses explaining your side make you look defensive. Keep it short.
❌ Don't ignore it
No response says "we don't care about customers." Always respond.
The Wait Rule
Don't respond immediately.
When you first read a negative review, you're emotional. That's normal. But emotional responses are almost always bad responses.
Wait 24 hours. Let the initial reaction pass. Then craft a calm, professional response.
The review isn't going anywhere. But a bad response lives forever.
After You Respond: What Happens Next
Sometimes the reviewer will reach out. When they do:
- Listen first. Let them explain fully before responding.
- Apologize sincerely. Even if you disagree, acknowledge their frustration.
- Offer a solution. Refund, discount, redo the service—whatever's appropriate.
- Follow through. Do exactly what you promised.
- Ask if they'd update their review. After you've resolved it: "If we've made this right, would you consider updating your review?"
Not everyone will update their review. But some will—and even if they don't, you've handled it the right way.
The Prevention Strategy
The best negative review response is one you never have to write.
Most unhappy customers don't want to trash you publicly. They want to be heard. They want their problem fixed.
If you give them a private way to share feedback first, most will take it instead of going to Google.
Smart review systems ask customers to rate their experience first:
- 5 stars → Send them to Google
- Less than 5 stars → Send them to a private feedback form
You get the positive reviews publicly and the negative feedback privately—where you can actually fix it.
The Bottom Line
Responding to negative reviews is simple:
- Wait 24 hours before responding
- Keep it short — 2-3 sentences max
- Acknowledge their experience without arguing
- Offer to make it right offline
- Never get defensive, sarcastic, or blame them
Your response shows future customers who you are. Make it count.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I respond to a negative Google review?
Respond within 24-48 hours with a brief, professional message. Use this template: "Hi [name], I'm sorry to hear about your experience. This isn't the standard we hold ourselves to. I'd like to make this right—please reach out to me at [phone/email]." Don't argue, don't get defensive, and keep it to 2-3 sentences. Your response is for future customers reading the review, not just the person who wrote it.
Should I respond to all negative reviews?
Yes, always respond to negative reviews. 53% of customers expect a response within a week, and businesses that respond to reviews earn 35% more revenue than those that don't. Ignoring a negative review tells future customers you don't care about feedback. Even if the review is unfair, a professional response shows you take customer experience seriously.
What should you not say in a review response?
Never argue facts ("Actually, you only waited 15 minutes"), get defensive ("No one has ever complained before"), blame the customer, use sarcasm, or write long explanations. These responses make things worse and turn future customers away. Keep responses short, professional, and focused on moving the conversation offline where you can resolve it.
How long should I wait before responding to a negative review?
Wait 24 hours before responding. When you first read a negative review, you're emotional—that leads to defensive responses that make things worse. Give yourself time to calm down, then craft a professional response. The review isn't going anywhere, but a bad response lives forever.
Can I ask customers to update their negative review?
Yes, after you've genuinely resolved their complaint. First, reach out privately and fix the problem. Then, once they're satisfied, you can politely ask: "If we've made this right, would you consider updating your review?" Not everyone will update it, but some will. Never offer incentives for changing reviews—that violates Google's policies.